her name suggests, loves to talk and loves penpals. she would like to correspond
with any other sisters or friends worldwide who are interested in corresponding
and will answer all e-mail promptly. Please No Mash Notes!
I am a 40+ year
old transsexual lady who has found her inner self, is enjoying a belated
girlhood and has been fulltime since May 1998. I am 38C-28-42,
5'11", 160 lbs, size 14, have my own long brown hair and hazel eyes. My sexual
orientation has always been heterosexual, I don't quite know how
to describe it now, I find both men and women very attractive. I have remained
celibate while I figure everything out. Sex without Love is not important
knowing ones true Self is. I love my new Self, the old self was too
limited to be completely happy. Windi knows herself better now, she
is presenting herself to the world as a whole FEMALE being. She transitioned
in place, her coworkers have been just great, kind and understanding, as
has her administration. It has been such a pleasant surprise to find how
understanding people have been. I'm looking for penpals/ companionship/friendship/love
in no particular order and would love to correspond with interesting people.
Windi has a photopage
of her life as a girl. She even has a picture of what she used to
look like (click here).
alter-ego was married 25+ years to a wonderful woman, whom she still loves,
but who, when our sons reached puberty, couldn't coexist with Windi and
tried to purge her from my soul. Believe me girls and guys, a half a soul
is not viable. To her surprise, and mine, Windi emerged as the dominant
being. She may have always been stronger. Remember, behind every
successful man there is a strong, silent woman. I was surprised by who
She was, Me! Her grown sons had a difficult time coping with
the changes their father has undergone. As fine, handsome, loving,
young men with no traces of GID, who are quite happy in their God-given
sex/gender, they had a hard time understanding their father's needs and desires.
The "loss" of their father was both traumatic and hurtful. Time has healed and will continue to heal their wounds, soften their hurt, and allow
their love to have fewer bounds. They are again ending their letters and phone
conversations with "I love you." I am often moved to tears.
Hobbies & Sundries:
I like New Age
Music (Narada), but also Roy Orbison, Berlin, Shania Twain, Sheryl Crow;
Shopping and Bargains (What girl doesn't); Gardening/Horticulture (My new
apartment now has micro flower beds and gardens, not my old private gardens
but pleasing none-the-less); I love movies with strong women, Sigorney
Weaver, and dreamy guys, Brad Pitt; I watch the box for Ally McBeal, Practice
and TV Science Fiction (Star Trek Voyager, DS9, Next Generation, Earth,
Final Conflict, SG1, Outer Limits even the first Star Trek episodes, although
I have seen them a million times; Worf, Michael, you are the best looking
black man on Earth! although Michael Jordan comes very close.), X-files
(Skully, my idol), Pretender (Jarad is a hunk, Parker is Hot, sigh, envy!),
RuPaul (You are really glamorous and beautiful). I am irresistibly drawn
to beautiful ladies, both TG and GG, but the inner beauty is what holds
me. Beautiful men especially those who remind me of my father make me feel
soft, cuddly and very girlish, my daddy was the most handsome man alive
in his youth, I can still remember curling up beside him and going to sleep,
feeling so safe. My mom was/is a lot like Parker, beautiful, determined
and strong!, no psychoanalysis please! I grew up feeling very loved by
both my parents. They gave me the stength to face the world. My mom has
welcomed her new daughter and loves her as much as she did her son. I wish everyone could be as lucky as I.
Having Family means so much.
I am a member of
the Unitarian Universalist Church which has proven to be a very accepting
and affirming church. I have found many friends there. I would never have
believed Sunday morning would have become the high point of my week, but
it has. I have found happiness and a greater spiritual self. Despite
all I have lost, I have gained so much that is new, wonderful and beautiful
that I shall never regret the day Windi chose to step out of the closet.
For when she reached for the sunlight she found the stars, happiness and
a great inner peace. She has also found that the most powerful weapon in
this world is a smile and a happy heart. She has learned that the
most valuable resource in the world is a friend. I now have many
friends, I have many genetic as well as transgendered girl friends.
They all help me affirm to the world that Windi Is a girl worth knowing
and having as friend.
I am happy to present WINDI to the world. She is a bit more of a party animal than her old self. She enjoys socializing with her growing circle of girlfriends. She, as her name suggests, loves to talk, loves penpals too! Guys & Dolls!
Hugs to all you
sisters out there. Remember to be true to yourself. The more love
you give, the more you receive. Bye now, see ya soon. Windi
Remember All you East Tennessee area transgendered persons, SWANS is a fun group! We meet at 8:00 pm the third Friday of each month in Knoxville. Come by and visit us. You never have to worry about being found out. This social group is a safe, congenial place and your real identity will be known only to the newsletter editor and the president if you decide to join. We are discrete and everything said at the meeting is confidential. We never release names or mailing lists to anyone.Spouses and partners are most welcome. Come dressed how ever you feel comfortable, there is a place to change if you need to. We have really grown since we started in May 97. Click SWANS for more details and visit our new site at T G Forum .
Fe-mail me at Windi
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